I recently had a chat with an ex-girlfriend over the internet.
As you do,you tend to limit yourself conversation with the "how are yous,hows life and what have you been up tos" and usually the chat lasts for about six to ten minutes and then you say your 'goodbyes and stay wells'.
But she happened to have more to say than just the salutation because she interupted me and abruptly refered to me as a liar,and she went on and on about how much shes kept track of all the conversations shes had with me over the number of years we'd been together.So then i could not help but persist she tells me all these "lies" that allegedly define who i am.She said i was never serious with her when we dated; that i only ever made an effort to sit on the 3 hour train journey to go and visit her whenever i wanted 'something'; that i said i never had any female friends; and that i insisted that she relocates nearer to me so we can make our 'relationship' work;she also expressed her unhappiness when she heard that i was actually seing someone else even though we'd been apart for atleast 2 years.For the gentleman that i am,i felt sorry for the grudge she held for me because not only was she angry that i had moved on,she also had not got over my sexy self.At this point,i new where she was going but most importantly were she was coming from.But did i care?
In all my growing up years,i learned that whenever i dated,more times than not,the female would know what i was up to,usually,i only wanted sex.And the female specie is pretty good at identifying that b'coz they can play the hard-to-get game longer than an impala runs away from the Cheater,Need i say more!So then i ask all the Men and Women; when a man takes a 3hr train journey to see a woman,does he or does he not just want sex? when he tells her he does not have any other female friends,isn't he just saying its none of your business? or when he phones her at 1am and tells her to get ready b'coz he's going to pick her up only coz she lives down the road from his,I ask,isn't that a booty call?My ex on the other hand was convinced that we were dating,that we were in a strong bond and that i should never have run away with someone else in the end.She was convinced that LOVE was were we were bound.But then the principles of my teenage years prevailed,that a booty-call will always be just that and that the woman you'll marry will have to be hand-picked from different circles...